The way people do wedding these days is really baffling. Prior to our wedding(that of myself and my wife), I had some unique discussions with my potential spouse. Nowadays, people are just interested in their wedding ceremonies that they fail to have real conversations with their potential spouses.
Pastor Enoch Adeboye, who serves as the General Superintendent of the Redeemed Christian Church of God World Wide (RCCG), recently shared the story of how he courted his wife, Titilope, when he was a younger man many years ago.
The famous clergyman made the observation that, of all the potential suitors for Titilope, his wife, he was the least qualified.
He stated, “There were several of us competing against one another for the hand of my wife.” Even though I was the least qualified of all of the numerous suitors, I had my heart set on marrying a gorgeous princess. There were a total of nine of us, but only three of us were in the lead. But, I was a student, and one of us was a lawyer who possessed a car. The other one of us drove. My only option was to use a foot wagon (moving around on foot).
I made the decision to inform her about my current financial situation. Having pleaded with her and urged her, “Please listen I am destitute with no money, house or influence. In fact, I have absolutely nothing.’ I responded by telling her that the one thing I did have was the small intellect that God had given to me. “But for myself, I have nothing else to give you.” If you choose to get married to me, you will have total and utter exclusivity over me.
Single women, Pay more attention to the things that motivate men than you do to the things that motivate men… Never Be Content with What Your Eyes See or What Your Ears Hear.
My Advice To The Singles Before Wedding
LET GOD GUIDE YOU BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN SEE THE FINAL DESTINATION FROM THE VERY FIRST STEP. THE WORK THAT GOD WANTS TO DO IN THE WORLD WILL NOT CAUSE HIS GRACE TO BE INSUFFICIENT FOR YOU TO COMPLETE IT.
YOU WON’T Commit Any Mortal Errors When Using the Name of Jesus.
Sometimes, I stop to wonder why some single sisters are very materialistic. Singles, you need to understand that there is more to marriage than physical looks, money or other material possessions.
Moreover, i am not of the opinion that you shouldn’t marry someone who is well to do. However, all i’m saying is that material possessions and gain, or physical attributes shouldn’t be your main focus. Please, try to balance things.